How to Get Your Libra Man Back

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Libra men are hopeless romantics. It is because their ruling planet is Venus; the planet of love. When a Libra man falls in love, they fall hard and they are fiercely loyal. However, the flip side to this, is that once a relationship is over, a Libra man will rarely consider giving it another go. They aren't the type of guy to get caught up in on-again-off-again romances. Don't expect to cast a Libra man aside and come back for them later. Libras view breakups with a strong sense of finality.

Still, sometimes mistakes are made and words are said in anger. This is especially true if you're one of Libra's most compatible signs; the fiery and temperamental Leo. If you and your Libra man have broken up, you may find yourself feeling that a mistake has been made. Libras do have many wonderful traits to be missed. They are charming, intelligent, empathetic, and always striving to create unity and harmony amongst friends and family. If you keep your Libra's personality and preferences in mind, you'll have much better luck in convincing him to give your courtship another try.

Start by telling the truth

Libra men highly value justice and truth. If you're trying to reignite an old Libra flame, he is probably already feeling very hesitant towards the prospect. While Libra men love romance, it can be difficult to regain their trust, once they've been hurt. Being honest about why mistakes were made will appeal to his sense of justice, and make it more likely that he will hear you out.

Tell him your side of the story, but be receptive to hearing his side as well

The constellation of Libra is the balancing scales, because what Libras value most is fairness, equality, and balance. If things already went south with your Libra man, there's a good chance that the balance of your dynamic somehow got thrown out of whack. As you set out to negotiate a second chance, remember this balance. Trying to talk over a Libra who is already skeptical is likely to cement the relationship as over in his mind. Listen to what he has to say. You know that your egalitarian Libra is going to extend the same courtesy to you.

Don't argue or become emotional

Being truthful, open, and direct, doesn't mean that you have to lose your temper or start shedding tears. Libra men prefer peace and harmony. They don't like to fight, and they can become uncomfortable with large displays of emotions, especially if you are trying to lay the blame on them for your negative feelings. Say what you need to say, and tell him the course of action that you'd prefer, but speak in a low, calm tone of voice, and if you do feel that you're about to become upset, step away for a moment, until you can regain control of your emotions. A calm and non-confrontational setting is one in which a Libra man is most likely to be comfortable and happy.

Take them out for a nice meal

Rekindling an old flame with a Libra is best done over a delicious meal and a few glasses of wine. Libras love fine dining and a bottle from a quality vineyard. You might try bringing your Libra out to an expensive French or Italian place, depending on his preferences. Of course, in such a venue, you'll need to be well-dressed and adhere to all of the social norms and customs of an upscale establishment. Libras are easily embarrassed by bad manners, and in a fancy restaurant, they'll be all the more easily humiliated by an offhand faux pas. But putting in the extra effort to use good manners and conduct yourself in an elegant way, is sure to go far in earning his forgiveness.

Make him a mix tape

This is a classic romantic gesture, and Libra men adore romance. There is also the fact that Libras are quite musically-inclined. This is a way to appeal to one of his greatest joys, and you can also show him that you do pay attention to his passions, as you put together a collection of his favorite songs and artists.

Strike up a flirtation, or show some affection

Libra men are very warm and caring. They love to hold hands and lock eyes with the woman they love over a candlelight dinner. Of course, this isn't something you should force, but use your intuition, and give it a try if you think it's likely to be well-received. If he seems ready for it, showing him some affection. This is one of the best ways to help him feel close to you, and get the spark that the two of you once had, bursting back into full flame.

Be patient and don't try to strong-arm your Libra man

Libra men are indecisive. This is why they are so compatible with the more direct and assertive sun signs, such as Leos and Geminis. When you are already in a relationship with a Libra man, it may be helpful for him to have someone more take charge guide him towards decisions, but when you are in the process of trying to mend a fractured relationship, you're not in a place to help a Libra make choices. You must have patience and respect his Libra nature. Odds are, he won't accept you back with open arms right away. Libras are likely to believe that if a relationship has ended, there's a good reason for it. That's not to say that he won't change his mind, but it will take time, and you have to let him come to the decision on his own.

All that you can do is open up, and lay out your feelings honestly. This shouldn't be too frightening a prospect with a sun sign known for diplomacy and compromise. Libras truly are of the most easy-going and reliable signs in the astrological family. Have faith in the Libra you love, and respect the fact that reconciliation may not happen immediately.