Love and sex

Almost everyone brings some emotional baggage or other to a relationship. A romantic relationship between two adults is rarely without a trail of shadows. And one of the most common though least talked-about issues is a fear of intimacy. If you believe despite having an otherwise satisfying relationship, your girlfriend or wife is reluctant to come close to you, here is how you can deal with her fear of intimacy.

Every woman is different

Physical intimacy is an essential part of any successful relationship. While there are no rules on how and how often you should be making love, if such episodes have become extremely unfulfilling to either partner, perhaps it is time to take stock of the situation. Here are a few things you should consider if the passion in your relationship has dissipated and your partner is not interested in intimacy.

Different strokes for different folks

Men are often at a loss to understand why their wives won’t initiate sex even when the marriage is on the whole a happy one. If she can make the effort to organize a picnic for junior’s entire soccer group or to great lengths to buy Christmas gifts for the entire family, why not take the lead in having sex. No less important is the fact that it makes men feel highly desired and thus loved when a wife initiates intimacy. So if you have been having problems on this front, here are some reasons why your wife may not be taking the initiative and what to do about it.

Sexual desire is one of the most natural feelings among adult humans. It can however be the site of extreme complexity too due to the likes and dislikes of two entirely different people. So if you prefer oral sex but find that your partner is less than forthcoming on the practice, here are few things you can do.

Take it easy

Marriage is a path that every newly-wed couple believes, is paved with ever-blooming roses and happily-ever-afters. The young people promise each other that they would never let the spark die out and would nurture their marriage with the nectar of romance.

One of the most common causes of a troubled relationship is a lack of sexual harmony. This usually results in a situation where one partner wants sex more often than the other. Unfortunately even though sex is not vital to the success of a relationship, the inability of both partners to agree on this issue often leads to their drifting away from each other till they may eventually breakup. If you find yourself looking a similar scenario, here are the most common reasons why your sex drive may differ from that of your partner.

Natural tendencies

Sexual incompatibility is one of the major reasons of a marriage falling apart. When either partner begins to avoid sex, it is usually taken as a sign of rejection by the other. But there may be other reasons for his or her loss of interest in sex. If you feel that your wife is becoming sexually distant, find out why and then try to resolve the issue. Here are a few common reasons why wives appear to be too tired to want sex and how husbands can contribute to a fulfilling marital relationship.

The age of consent means the minimum age at which a person is able to understand and agree to have sex according to the laws of the country he/she belongs to. In many countries, it is illegal for someone, no matter how old, to have sex with an individual below the age of consent. In some cases the law may be more lenient when both partners are below the age of consent but usually in all civil societies, there is a minimum age below which sex is illegal.

One of the most-commonly held assumptions about aging is that you have to bid adieu to a satisfying sex life. Even both men and women do go through many physiological changes due to aging, it does not necessarily mean that they have to turn celibates. For men especially, recent advances in medication as well as nutrition and healthcare means that they can continue to have a fulfilling sex life after sixty.

For many couples, a spot of early lovemaking is perhaps the last thing on the mind as the whole family rushes to get dressed and leave for school or work. However both common sense and scientific research shows that morning sex can work wonders for a relationship not to mention grant health benefits for both partners as they indulge in a little steamy action before they get out of bed. So here are five great reasons to tempt you and your partner to early morning sex starting from tomorrow.


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